Every once in a while we get this feeling , that itchy feeling where we look at someone with envy in our eyes that we try so hard to hide but no matter how hard we try , it will still be obvious and that's totally okay because we have the right to be jealous .
Yes it is a bit of an annoying thing to admit that you're jealous but we are humans and we have to have been in this situation before and if anybody ever says that they never get jealous then that is a total lie .
I know that it hurts for sure wither it was seeing someone you love with another person or even a best friend or just someone with potentials that you think are better than yours .
The thing is that whatever I try to advice you here will never really let this feeling go , you will always feel it in the deep part of your thoughts .
However that doesn't mean we can't find a way to busy ourselves with something other than this feeling .
For instance , you see the person you love with someone else then don't go home , eat some chocolates and watch some Nicholas Sparks Movie ... Noo don't do that , instead go out , find an adventure to live with your friends ... Think about the positive side of things .. If two people were meant to be together , they will always find their way back to each other so don't make a drama out of it and pick yourself up , it is not the end of the world .. Besides who knows , maybe someone better is waiting for you at the end of the road .
A best friend leaving you behind then talk to her/him because that is totally unacceptable for them to do that because when you signed up to be best friends that means you signed up to be like each other's second family and family means no one gets left behind so if they are going around finding new friends and leaving you like a piece of garbage in the back like noooo ! I am not saying that they only should hang out with only you because that is just plain stupidity but they shouldn't prefer anyone on you .
As for someone you think has better qualifications or looks or whatever then follow the steps bellow : -
1. Go to your room .
2. Find a mirror .
3. Look at yourself and not just on the outside but on your inside as well from thoughts to feeling to anything .
4. Tell the person standing in front of you the following --->
' You are beautiful body and soul , you have an amazing hair and lovely eyes , you are comfortable with who you are and you can rock a bikini , you are kind and sweet , you don't compare yourself with others , simply because it is not worth it , you are happy with who you are , you can't draw like that girl can but maybe you can dance like nobody else can , you can't have the stuff she has but you have the greatest gift of life which is appreciating yourself , you don't need no money or gifts or some weird talent because you , standing here on this earth , you are a living miracle , you are a true star , you don't need no one , you can do this , you can find the happiness inside of you and shine brighter than anyone else , love yourself and your flaws that should be considered perfections , you are a warrior and you are proud of who you are and no one can change that . '
This is all normal but don't make your life surrounded with jealousy because it's going to ruin you , learn to stop comparing yourself , each and every person is different and that itself makes them special so never compare , just simply love yourself and accept your flaws .